tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4146739799811426023.post8618157247165840990..comments2023-04-06T07:17:02.018-07:00Comments on bloggerbyconvincement: ConflictIrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06226091959080769559noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4146739799811426023.post-39807766964131506922012-03-23T18:58:52.751-07:002012-03-23T18:58:52.751-07:00That would be great, Karen. I love knowing that yo...That would be great, Karen. I love knowing that you're reading, and I look forward to dialogue here.Irishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06226091959080769559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4146739799811426023.post-67564569789246239122012-03-19T10:10:59.386-07:002012-03-19T10:10:59.386-07:00Wow, Iris! Your words are so clear and inspiring....Wow, Iris! Your words are so clear and inspiring. Thanks for sharing of yourself so well. I might have to become one of your blog "regulars". Cheers, Karen GilbertKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285112533892617498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4146739799811426023.post-63748435547501087262012-03-15T12:40:21.456-07:002012-03-15T12:40:21.456-07:00Yes, Molly, I find that arguing rarely, if ever, l...Yes, Molly, I find that arguing rarely, if ever, leads to the kind of positive feelings we get when we feel heard. And when we truly listen to others.Irishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06226091959080769559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4146739799811426023.post-70342118502269290932012-03-09T20:24:11.565-08:002012-03-09T20:24:11.565-08:00I avoid conflict too. In some ways I think addres...I avoid conflict too. In some ways I think addressing conflict means I'm unleashing the parts of me that need to stay leashed. I don't feel good after I argue. I know this isn't healthy but it's me. Maybe I'll learn to embrace change but it's still too risky.Molly Dovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05527144463961666992noreply@blogger.com